When Should I Hire a Divorce Attorney - Money Problems

Attorney Kyle Kaufman • Nov 17, 2020

When Should I Hire a Divorce Attorney - Money Problems

Attorney Kyle Kaufman • Nov 17, 2020

When Should I Hire a Divorce Attorney - Money Problems 

This is the third part of my series - When Should I Hire a Divorce Attorney. This post is about problems with money. Money problems arise in many marriages and that alone is not a reason to get a divorce. However, if the issues with money persist and lead to a breakdown of the marriage such that you have considered filing for a divorce, then it is a really good idea to hire a divorce attorney to help you.

First, money problems can come in many forms. It may be that your spouse is spending too much money. It could be that your spouse is not sharing money with you. It might be that your spouse is preventing you from access to money. It could also be that your spouse is wasting money on frivolous ventures or risky investments. Your spouse might be hiding money from you. Your spouse could have opened accounts that you are not aware exist. Perhaps your spouse is not using money for marital debt without telling you.  

As you can see from the previous paragraph, the list of money problems can be long. What is common with all money problems is that one spouse has control and the other spouse does not. The lack of control is the problem.    

When there is a divorce, the control problems do not get better unless you have help. Although both spouses are required to complete and file a Financial Disclosure Form, it is not uncommon for a spouse to underreport or withhold information or complete the document incorrectly. A Financial Disclosure Statement is a document in which the party completing it should report all of his or her income, assets, debts and expenses. Spouses rely on the information reported in order to arrive at a fair division of assets and debts and income.  

A divorce attorney will help you get the information you need from your spouse. If your spouse is not forthcoming with the information a divorce attorney has tools to use to try and get the information. The spouse can be required to provide financial documents and answer questions under oath about their income, assets, debts and liabilities. If the attorney feels that a spouse is withholding information the attorney can request that the judge get involved to direct the spouse to comply with the requests for information. If a spouse fails to turn over documents or refuses to answer questions under oath, the spouse can be sanctioned.    

If you are asking if you need an attorney to help you, the answer is, “yes”. The lack of control of your finances did not happen overnight. Some parts of your marriage developed such that one spouse had greater control of the finances and has now used the finances to his or her advantage and to your detriment. It is only human nature for the same power and control struggle over money to continue. Rather than try on your own by employing the same methods you used in the past, which did not work, do something different. Hire a divorce attorney and have the attorney seek the information that you need.  

In these posts I think it is important to address both spouses. In other words, if you are the spouse that has controlled the marital funds, you may be accused of vindictiveness or wrongdoing, when in fact, you have done nothing wrong. Sometimes the person who handles the money is simply acting reasonably and responsibly. The problem may boil down to perspective. Perhaps you are thrifty and saving the future, while your spouse is a spendthrift and is constantly buying new things. Neither spouse is really right or wrong in such a situation. What is wrong, however, is a lack of agreement between two spouses.  

If you are accused of overly controlling money or being vindictive the best thing you can do is be transparent. Explain your money habits and show where you keep money and how you spend it or save it.      

If you have improperly used marital funds it is important for you to have legal representation. Rather than perpetuate the problem and make it worse, it is advantageous to acknowledge what was done and then correct the behavior. A judge will have greater respect for you if you can address and fix past mistakes. An experienced divorce attorney will help you. Divorce attorneys specialize in analyzing your financial affairs and then coming up with solutions to make sure that the financial aspects of divorce are fair and equitable.
13 Mar, 2024
In Wisconsin, your child has the right to deny you placement or visitation with your grandchild absent a court order requiring visitation or placement. You, as the grandparent, have the right to petition the state courts for relief. When determining whether placement or visitation is appropriate, a court will look at whether the grandparent will act in accordance with the parent’s wishes and if placement or visitation is in the best interests of the grandchild. Grandparents have a high burden of proof to obtain visitation. Courts will start with the presumption that the parent is acting in the child’s best interests and the burden is on the grandparent to overcome this presumption. Courts may look to what historical visitation schedule the grandparent exercised, the nature and length of relationship between grandparent and grandchild, the ability of the parties to cooperate and communicate, and any other factor that the court deems relevant. There are pros and cons in filing a petition for grandparent visitation and consulting with an attorney may be helpful to parties who think they will request relief.
13 Mar, 2024
Child support is generally ordered pursuant to the guidelines provided for in the governing statutes. Courts may deviate from these guidelines if it finds that the guidelines amount would be unfair. The court makes the fairness determination after evaluating the fifteen fairness factors. It is important for litigants to be prepared ahead of any request for deviation because the burden is on the requesting party to show that deviation is appropriate. Litigants often believe that child support is “just math,” but it can be much more complicated than that. An attorney can help parties look at all 15 factors, determine which ones apply, and make legal arguments on your behalf.
23 Feb, 2024
The Wisconsin Administrative Code pertaining to child support guidelines was updated effective January 1, 2024. The code chapter, specifically Department of Child and Families Chapter 150 (DCF 150), was updated to clarify when and how equivalent care should be applied when calculating child support. Child support is the obligation to support a child financially. Support is calculated by reviewing the payor’s gross income and comparing it to the amount of overnight placement that person has with the child. In some instances, a parent would be unable or unavailable to have overnight placement with their child. For example, a parent working third shift would not feasibly be able to have overnight placement. In that case and if a parent provided a certain amount of care during they day, they could be given credit for overnight placement. The purpose is to not penalize a parent for working third shift who provides meaningful care and support for their child but is unable to actually have overnight placement. That is called “Equivalent care”, which contemplated that periods of time a parent has with their child of at least 6 hours and during which a meal is provided could be considered equivalent of an overnight. Unfortunately, when applying equivalent care credit, courts were giving individuals duplicate credit for overnight placement and placement the day following but did not include an overnight. For example, If an individual had placement Saturday into Sunday, they would receive credit for Saturday overnight placement. Courts would often give that parent credit for an additional overnight if that parent had placement of the child until Sunday at 7:00 under the presumption that the child was provided meals and was with that parent nearly the entire day. The scenario was not consistent with the original intent for equivalent care credit. The update to DCF 150 removed the equivalent care definition and clarified its implementation within the code that is consistent with the original intent and purpose for equivalent care. The update specifically states that Duplicate credit, as described above, is not permitted. A parent cannot receive credit for equivalent care during a period that is within 24 hours of an overnight period for which they received a credit, unless the other parent is providing overnight care the night before and after.  Child support calculations and placement arrangements are often among the most contentious issues in family law cases. If you find yourself lost and in need of direction, contact our Family Law Team today!
19 Jan, 2024
Unfortunately, there are times when one party withholds placement of a child. There a can be many reasons or motivations for a party to withhold placement from the other parent. Regardless of the reason, the party who has had their placement denied, withheld or interfered with may file a motion with the court to have the placement order enforced. As in most cases when a motion is filed, the moving party must allege facts to show that their placement has been denied or interfered with. Because this particular motion asserts that one parent has been denied placement with their child—and the parent-child relationship is of such great importance—the court is obligated to hold a hearing on the motion within 30 days of service, unless both parties agree to extend the time to hold a hearing. During the hearing, both parties present their case to the court. At the conclusion, the court must determine whether the party alleged to have denied placement to the other party did so intentionally and unreasonably. If the court finds both occurred, it must issue an order granting additional period of placement to replace those denied periods of placement and award the moving party a reasonable amount for the cost of the action. The court may make additional findings to include additional financial compensation to the moving party, find the responding party in contempt and issue an injunction requiring the responding part to strictly follow the placement order. It is possible for a court to find that placement was intentionally denied while determining that that denial was not unreasonable given the circumstances. If you have had periods of placement denied to you or have been accused of withholding placement from another parent, call one of the attorneys at Hawley, Kaufman & Kautzer, S.C. today!
15 Jan, 2024
A temporary order in a divorce proceeding is especially helpful when there are contested issues. Think of a temporary order as the “rules of the game” during a divorce proceeding. Aside from limited situations, the soonest a divorce judgment may be granted is 120 days after service or filing a joint petition. A lot can happen in that time and without any provisions or orders in place either or both parties may find themselves in at a disadvantage. A temporary order can establish a legal custody and physical placement arrangement for the parties to follow while the divorce is pending. That temporary order could end up being the final order of legal custody and placement, however, it is not uncommon for a final placement arrangement to be different from a temporary order. Either or both parties can request a temporary order hearing at which time the court would make an order regarding custody and placement. It is possible for the parties to enter into a stipulated agreement regarding custody or placement, which would be approved by the court and the parties would be obligated to follow the arrangement. A temporary order can also establish child support or maintenance from one party to the other. It can also direct either or both parties to continue pay debts or continue to maintain property resulting from the marriage. The order could also include a requirement that both parties maintain the children as beneficiaries on a health insurance policy. In some cases it may be appropriate to get an order awarding one person the right to and enjoyment of the martial residence, thereby requiring the other party to relocate. The order can also establish that debts incurred by either party after the divorce was filed is the debt of that individual rather than a marital debt. There are many good reasons to request hearing for a temporary and to obtain an order either by stipulation or following a contested hearing from the court. Some parties may want to proceed through a divorce amicably with their spouse, however, it could be detrimental to proceed without an order guiding the parties and setting the rules of the game. A temporary order is a vital way to protect yourself and interests while divorce is pending before the court. If you have questions on a new or pending divorce action or if you have more questions about a temporary order, contact our team today to schedule a free initial consultation!
By Emmanuel Durugnan 06 Jan, 2024
In pending divorce proceedings, it is common for the parties to reach at least a partial agreement regarding physical placement, legal custody, child support, property division or maintenance while other matters remain unresolved. In that case, even though the parties prepare, sign and file that written agreement with the court, Wis. stat. 767.333 requires that the circuit court hold a hearing to review the agreement with the parties. At that hearing the court will ensure that the written agreement correctly conveys the agreement of both parties. Generally, the court will have each party provide brief testimony either elicited by the parties’ counsel or the court. It is necessary for the court to ensure that the parties express their understanding of the agreement and agree to be bound by the terms as it would be incorporated into the judgment. This section only applies to initial orders regarding physical placement, legal custody, child support, property division or maintenance. If the parties file a stipulation on these matters after a judgment had previously been entered, the court can simply approve the agreement without a hearing.  If you have questions in your family law matter, make sure to contact Hawley, Kaufman & Kautzer today and schedule your free initial consultation!
08 Dec, 2023
You might hear of people who are legally separated and wonder how that is different from simply being divorced. In Wisconsin, legal separations and divorces share a similar legal process, but the end result is differently. For example, in both cases the parties have to file petitions with the court. The court cannot enter a judgment in either case until 120 days have passed since the joint petition was filed or the non-filing party was served. In Wisconsin, the grounds for divorce is that the marriage is irretrievably broken, meaning there is not reason prospect of the parties being able to reconcile. However, in a legal separation, the parties need to allege and show that the marriage is only “broken”, which leaves the possibility that the parties may reconcile. After a court grants a judgment for legal separation the parties will remain legally married and can still enjoy certain benefits such as insurance. However, both parties would live separate lives. In both cases the court will make orders on child custody and placement. At any time during the legal separation the parties are able to reconcile. Additionally, the parties can mutually agree to convert the legal separation to a divorce proceeding. If one party wants to convert the legal separation to a divorce, however, they may not make that request until one year or after the entry of judgment of legal separation. While there may be certain financial and medical benefits to pursing legal separation versus a divorce, it is important to seek counsel and review financial or medical policies.  If you have questions and want to learn more about legal separation or divorce, contact our office to schedule a consultation!
16 Nov, 2023
A proceeding to terminate the parental rights (TPR) of one or both parents is initiated by preparing and filing a petition, summons and a notice. The petition is the document that identifies the people involved, including the child, and the grounds to terminate the right of one or both of the parents. Think of “grounds” as the reason for filing the petition. The summons and notice are the documents in which the parents and other parties are notified of the location, date and time of the hearing. It is important that the summons includes the potential consequences of failing to appear at the scheduled hearing. All parties must receive notice of those documents. The parents should be served in person at least seven days prior to the hearing. There are limited and specific circumstances under which other means of notifying the parties are acceptable, however. The initial hearing on the petition must be held within 30 days after the petitioner had been filed. At the initial hearing the court will determine whether a party will consent to the termination. The court should also advise the parents of their right to have an attorney represent them. Similar to criminal cases, a parent who has been found indigent could be eligible for representation by the public defender. The court will also inform the parents of their right to a jury trial and a substitution of judge. If the petition is contested—meaning one or both of the parties disagree with the request to terminate parental rights—the court shall set a trial within 45 days of that hearing, unless the court finds “good cause” to extend the time limits to schedule a hearing. The laws of civil procedures govern TPR proceedings, including the evidentiary phase of gathering discovery, conducting depositions and filing motions. The court will hear any timely filed motions prior to a trial. A TPR proceeding is broken into two phases: fact-finding and disposition. The fact-finding phase consists of a trial in which the fact finder determines what the “facts” are and whether they meet the burden of proof to show the grounds as alleged in the petition exist. If there is a court trial, the judge presides over the trial and is the “fact finder”. If there is a jury trial, “fact finder” consists of a jury of either 12 or 6 people. At the trial phase the fact finder only determines whether there are facts showing grounds exist to prove the petition. The fact finder does not decide whether the parental rights should be terminated. If following a trial, the fact finder determines that grounds exist to prove the petition, the case proceeds to a disposition hearing. At that hearing the judge determines whether it is in the child’s best interest that the parental rights of one or both of the parents be terminated. There are several factors that the court considers when making that decision. No one factor is given more weight than the others and the standard is the best interest of the child. The factors include:  Likelihood of adoption after a TPR Age and health of the child at the time of disposition and at removal from home if applicable Whether the child has a substantial relationship with a parent or other family members and whether it would be harmful to sever those relationships Wishes of the child Duration of separation of parent from child Whether the child will enter into a more stable and permanent family relationship upon a TPR Regardless of the reasons for a termination of parental rights proceeding, these cases are very emotional and difficult for the parties involved. The consequences of a termination of parental rights are significant, but not always negative. In most instances these cases are initiated for good reason. Still, it takes an emotional toll all the parties involved. If you have questions or want to learn more about a TPR proceeding, call us today.
15 Nov, 2023
Parental rights are among the most sacred and protected rights. There are instances, however, when the rights of parents may be terminated, sometimes stemming from removal of the child from the home involving child protective services. Additionally, there are instances when only one parent’s rights are terminated, preserving the other’s parental rights. This is typically in cases of a step-parent adoption. Parental rights may be terminated either voluntarily or involuntarily. This article will give an overview of the circumstances in which parental rights may be terminated. Later articles will provide a step-by-step process of a termination of parental rights proceedings. As mentioned previously, a parent may voluntarily terminate their parental rights. In those cases, the court must be certain that that parent is giving his or her consent to the termination and is aware of all the rights afforded to them, including a right to an attorney and a right to a jury trial. If a petition to terminate a parent’s rights is filed and the party will not consent to the termination, the petition must be filed under certain grounds, which are stated in Wis. Stat. 48.415. The grounds for an involuntary termination of parental rights are listed below followed by a brief description: Abandonment – a parent fails to communicate or visit with a child for a period of time and knows or is able to know the child’s whereabouts. Relinquishment – a parent “gave up” their child when the child was 72 hours old or younger Continuing need of protection or services – the child has been found to be a child in need of protection or services and is placed outside their home under a court order with conditions for the parent to meet to secure the child’s return, but has not done so and it is not likely to be achieved. Continuing parental disability – a parent is and has been in-patient at a licensed facility for treatment for mental illness, developmental disability or other incapacities which are likely to continue indefinitely. Continuing denial of periods of physical placement or visitation - parent has been denied periods of physical placement under law and a year or more has passed and the order has not been modified. Child abuse – the parent caused death or injury to a child resulting in a felony conviction Failure to assume parental responsibility – a parent who knows they may be a parent of a child and has failed to establish a substantial parental relationship in the child’s life. Incestuous parenthood – The parent whose rights are to be terminated is related to the other parent in a degree closer than a second cousin. Homicide or solicitation to commit homicide of parent – a parent is a victim of a crime for homicide or attempted homicide. Parenthood as a result of sexual assault – a parent who conceived a child as a result of sexual assault as defined in the criminal code. Commission of a serious felony against one of the person’s children – a child of the parent whose rights are to be terminated is a victim of a serious felony committed by that parent. Prior involuntary termination of parental rights to another child – A prior petition for involuntary termination of rights had been granted following a previous order of a child being found in need of protection or services. In either case—whether a parent voluntarily terminates their rights or grounds are met to terminate a parent’s rights—the court will not proceed to making the final order to terminate the rights unless it is in the child’s best interest. The prevailing standard when making such a significant decision is the best interest of the child involved. The court must review several factors in each case to determine whether a permanent severance of a parent’s rights is appropriate. Watch for later articles for an in depth review of the process for termination of parental rights.
06 Nov, 2023
A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDROs) is a court order that divides an individual’s retirement plans between themselves and their former spouse. The order is presented to the plan administrator and instructs how the plan should be divided between the member and the member’s spouse, often referred to a “alternate payee”. The QDRO is required by the plan administrator in order for it to deviate from the requirement that the member receive benefits from their retirement plan and instead to go an alternate payee subject to a QDRO. When a divorce is finalized and approved by the Court, the Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) will indicate how particular retirement plans should be divided, based on percentages with a domestic relations order. The MSA should state that the parties agree to contract with a financial firm to coordinate the division under the domestic relations order and share the cost of doing so. The parties will reach out to the financial firm which will then contact plan administrator about the domestic relations order with a proposed distribution. That financial firm will prepare a proposed QDRO for the plan administrator, parties and court to approve. Once the court approves the QDRO, the financial firm provides it to the plan administrator who then releases the funds pursuant to the order. Although this process is simplified into one paragraph, the process can take several months to finally be approved by the parties and for distribution to be finalized. There are many important steps to complete a QDRO, including making sure that the financial firm has all the necessary information to communicate with plan administrators. Additionally, before a QDRO can be approved by the court, the plan administrator and the member, alternate payee, and their attorneys if any must carefully review the information to distribution is correct. There are strict statutory provisions as to what is required for QDRO to be compliant and approved by the court.  Make sure to contact our experienced team if you would like to speak further about QDROs and how it may affect you.
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